I hear a whisper saying my name only at my boyfriends house at 3 am?

No doubt in my mind ; your bf house has a spirit who want to be acknowledge . OK try this . Next time your hear a noise tell him ;; I know you are here ; but its not your place anymore ; go in the light and the peace of God and start to pray This spirit need your help to cross over ; and its only with prayers you would be able to help him