What disorder if any does this sound like to you?

He's very rigid, things must be his way, his plans. He can be very self-centered, cold, stiff. He looks down upon people of service (waiters, etc.). He shows no signs of gratitude. He expects people to do things for him. He doesn't smile much. He's overly sensitive, the slightest criticism really gets him over the edge. He has explosive anger issues over things that shouldn't anger him to such a degree. He gets really mad suddenly at the slightest thing and cuts that person off completely. He holds onto anger and resentment for a very long time. He sometimes exaggerates or distorts things negatively. He lacks empathy. He has these grandiose ideas that never get off the ground, and he goes from one to the next. He has no real hobbies. He tends to isolate himself but blames others for everything. He jumps from one way of seeing things (an emotion/perspective) to another in a short time, kind of like mood swings? He has some physical ailments resulting from the held tension/anger. Is this NPD? Or another disorder, or what do you think it is?